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Loving ways to find the love of your life You have gone through times when you have loved being single and others that you have hated. Moments when you've wished you had someone to clothe and others who loved the solitude of your bed. If you are in that era in which you want to find the love of your life follow these 11 tips: 1. It is not always true that love comes when you least seek it That's like saying "you'll find a job when you least seek it." Most people who are waiting for a job to come to them by magic are the ones who do not. This thought is only an excuse to feed your fear and let go. Of course sometimes you find the love of your life when you least seek it, but waiting for that to happen is not a good strategy. Strive to find someone, do not get impatient but do not leave everything in the hands of fate. 2. Go where there are people who like the same things as you. You can skip the singles parties if you do not like them, but you should go to events and places where you can meet people. Join groups or social gatherings - such as the web meetup. Volunteer in any cause you believe in. Get involved in political parties. At least you are doing something that you like and at best you can find someone related to your interests. 3. Do not look for a romance, look for a relationship Romance is for dating and moments that you feel like being stupid with someone, but a relationship is the one that will give you stability and support you in difficult times. Do not look for someone to give you your ears. Find someone to contribute, who seeks and values your opinion. Who cares about what you want. 4. Happy people attract. Be a positive person Perhaps the problem that you can not find the love of your life is that you do not feel good about yourself. It's like the life you have and the one you would like to have. You have to strive to be the kind of person you would like to meet. If you are not a positive and confident person you will not be in the right condition to know the right kind of person. See a psychologist if you have depressive problems, create an exercise routine, and create eating habits. If you are shy develop skills to overcome your insecurity. You are not a finished product. You can always improve and grow. With love happens the same thing: you have to train yourself to be the kind of couple you aspire to be. 5. Take time to be alone If you have had past bad experiences it is important that you take some time to be alone. You can only find the right person if you spend time to heal, be alone to find out who you are again, reflect on what went wrong. That way you will not repeat the same mistakes over and over again. 6. Sexual attraction is not everything Good love is slow cooking, it needs some time to develop. Attraction is essential, but you do not have to feel it right away. Let time pass so that the emotion deepens and do not be impatient with what you are supposed to feel. Let it all flow. 7. Beware of the theory that opposites attract It is true that opposites attract, but nothing more. People with like-minded people are the ones who have successful and healthy long-term relationships. The easier you become, the easier it is for your relationship to be happy and successful. 8. Become an obsessed optimist You will find the love of your life. Believe it because it is true. Trust fully that you will find that person who joins you, who gives you balance, grows with you. You will find the love of your life. 9. Know your own needs Do you need a lot of space? Many samples of affection? Do you have to have it all controlled? Whatever your style is fine, but you must be aware of your own needs and be able to communicate this way to your future partner. You can improve and grow together if you both know what the other needs. 10. Learn the difference between a roll and a real relationship You can lie with whoever you want and flirt with whoever you want, but before you put someone in your life and share space or money with him, think about what kind of relationship you can bring. The person you're dating right now is showing you your best side. The bad comes later, so make sure you know its most hidden side before it goes too far. 11. Do not get caught up in an impossible love Holding on to someone who is not interested in you does not allow you to move forward. If you want to find the love of your life in your present you must close with your past. You have to see it as a big black hole under your feet where you have to get out of it or you will end up burying. And no one underground has ever found his true love. The key is finding someone to be bored with fun